Until recently I thought that one of the ultimate goals of productivity is comfort. By comfort I mean that fundamentally you are proficient enough to do what you need to almost automatically so you can use your left-over mental capacities towards something else, like achieving world peace or becoming a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist.

Being comfortable had the complete opposite effect on me. My increased proficiency lead to complacency and as a result I didn’t have the same attention to detail in completing everyday/procedural tasks. Overall I didn’t feel as sharp and switched on. Luckily it didn’t affect things too much. Inside me however, I felt that this new found comfort had dulled my creative/innovative mind, in effect it gave me a false sense of security. After all things are going good, so why change something that works?

A shift was occurring. I could feel that I was becoming a reactive rather than proactive person. I didn’t want to be going mentally stale, long story short I had to make some changes.

To counteract this shift I started taking more time to be “less comfortable”, which means an almost obsessive monitoring of my own progress and self-improvement.

I now take regular scheduled time to:

  • Analyse all of my daily operations: How much time I spend on tasks, how long it takes for it to be done and where I think I am not as efficient as I should be.
  • Revisit previous set plans/ideas and business direction: Are we on track? Are the plans still relevant? What is stopping them from being implemented?

By doing this I held myself more accountable and feel like I am able to be on the front foot to tackle issues rather than cleaning them up after the damage is done. The feeling of being active and in control saves a bit of stress too.

Having these sessions scheduled regularly means you are constantly keeping an eye on where you are going and improving on things. Or in the words of our Prime Minister “moving forwards”.

 

Thought a lot about typing a review of 2010 but it never quite eventuated. To put it in short form.

I…

  • Lost my Grandma, who had been with me and our family since the beginning. Sadly sometimes there are things that you cannot control. A week that I would never forget.
  • Found a way to slow down in life, switch-off (occasionally), lower expectations and just be in the moment (the ‘now’ haha).
  • Tried to expand the social circle a bit more, sometimes with hilarious results. Met some wonderful people and got to know some people better.
  • Went to Vegas (1st time), Italy (2nd time), Singapore and Hong Kong (for the however many-eth time). I choose to forget Macau.
  • Met Sarah Wilson (one of those little moments of awesome that the world conjures up sometimes).
  • Read more and wrote more too but still not as much as I would like to.
  • Still can’t dance.

 

Misery as Motivation (link)

It has been a couple of weeks since I saw the film The Social Network but the one thing that I can’t get out of my head is the way that Zuckerberg was able to completely zone out of the world around him to create his work. The way that he single-mindedly pursued his idea left me completely in awe.

It just shows how a killer mindset, determination and focus can make a big difference in the way we live our daily lives regardless of the circumstances we are up against.

While trying to research a bit more into this mindset I stumbled across this article, well worth a read.

Personally I find the hardest part of returning from a holiday is posting the photos.

Not because I don’t enjoy posting, sharing or taking photos but more the fact that I find it difficult to integrate it into my ‘returning from holiday’ routine.

Right now I think I am somewhere in the 40s on my SQ flight count. Somewhere amongst those return flights I developed a way of getting myself back into regular life in the shortest amount of time which involves.

Having something to look forward to on the return leg.

This could be anything, from catching up with a friend, seeing a loved one (not quite applicable to me), trying out an awesome airport departure lounge (Europe 2008) or eating a delicious Nutella snack that someone else carried around Italy for a week (Italia 2010).

Unpacking as soon as you possibly can.

Stepping over a suitcase everyday is no fun when you are at home.

Work.

Idle time just makes you wonder why you still aren’t on holiday. Enjoying work is a prerequisite to make this work (excuse the pun) but you probably knew that already.

Sleeping somewhat proper hours.

(Around 3 hours before/past your regular bed time).

If you land in a different timezone, one of the easiest ways to counter jetlag is to go outside and get some sun during the day and sleeping remotely close to your normal bedtime (basically when it is dark). Failing that try some melatonin (natural supplement) before you go to bed.

I should add that my preference when leaving on a trip is to land at night and returning is day.

Distance yourself.

For me this process is automatic but basically I take a moment on my flight back into Sydney to savour the last moments of a holiday and go over what I have gained from it. But the second I step off the plane I just try and put it all behind me.

Back to the photograph posting..

It is normally after I distance myself that I am bothered enough to start sorting through photos and posting them. In some ways I liken it to looking at old photos after a breakup. Using the same mindset accept that the holiday is over but give yourself a few moments to wallow in nostalgia and have a few smiles.

Unlike a breakup you can also tell yourself that if you truly love a place you will be back again without feeling like a tool after.

One way or another I know that I will be back in Italy again at some point in my life, until then I need to work towards making it all happen again.

And one way or another I also know that my photos will be up on Facebook eventually.

Text and email are polite invitations to a conversation. They happen at the speed and leisure of both the sender and the receiver. In stark contrast, when you get a phone call, it’s almost always a convenient time for the caller and a bad time for the recipient, who I refer to as the “victim” because I insist on accuracy. My philosophy is that every phone conversation has a loser.
http://dilbert.com/blog/entry/phone/

I am usually not a fan of any of the recent Jordan brand mashups (I prefer the classics remain as they are).

All that I am going to say is that I looked at these and didn’t want to throw up a little.

So it is a start.

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